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<channel><title><![CDATA[Arvada Therapy Solutions - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2026 03:41:17 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Navigating the Demands of the Entertainment, Creative, and Performing Arts Industries: How Therapy Can Help You Reach Your Full Potential]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/navigating-the-demands-of-the-entertainment-creative-and-performing-arts-industries-how-therapy-can-help-you-reach-your-full-potential]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/navigating-the-demands-of-the-entertainment-creative-and-performing-arts-industries-how-therapy-can-help-you-reach-your-full-potential#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2025 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Individual Therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/navigating-the-demands-of-the-entertainment-creative-and-performing-arts-industries-how-therapy-can-help-you-reach-your-full-potential</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sabrina Merz, LPC         Working in the entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries is incredibly rewarding, but it&rsquo;s no secret that these fields come with their own unique set of challenges. From the pressures of high expectations and intense performance demands to balancing personal well-being with professional success, it can sometimes feel overwhelming. However, you don&rsquo;t have to face these challenges alone. Therapy can provide the support you need to manage stres [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sabrina Merz, LPC</font></em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/ballet-feet_orig.jpg" alt="Ballet Feet" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Working in the entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries is incredibly rewarding, but it&rsquo;s no secret that these fields come with their own unique set of challenges. From the pressures of high expectations and intense performance demands to balancing personal well-being with professional success, it can sometimes feel overwhelming. However, you don&rsquo;t have to face these challenges alone. Therapy can provide the support you need to manage stress, overcome creative blocks, and build resilience.<br /><strong><br />Here&rsquo;s how therapy can help you navigate the challenges of the entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries:</strong><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/singingnotes-01_orig.jpg" alt="Singing Audition" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#515151"><strong style=""><font size="4">Managing Stress and Burnout in Creative Industries<br /></font></strong><br />The entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries demand a lot from their professionals. Long hours, tight deadlines, and public scrutiny often lead to high stress and burnout. Therapy offers effective tools and coping strategies for managing stress, preventing burnout, and maintaining focus, energy, and engagement in your work.<br /><br /><strong style=""><font size="4">Overcoming Creative Blocks and Unlocking Inspiration<br /></font></strong><br />Whether you&rsquo;re a musician, actor, dancer, or designer, creative blocks are a common struggle. Therapy can help identify the root causes of these blocks&mdash;whether it&rsquo;s self-doubt, pressure, or burnout&mdash;and provide strategies to overcome them. With the right support, you can unlock new inspiration and flow in your work.<br /><br /><strong style=""><font size="4">Building Resilience and Emotional Regulation for Artists<br /></font></strong><br />Resilience is essential for success in the entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries. Therapy can help you develop emotional resilience and improve your ability to manage emotions under pressure. Learn how your brain and body respond to stress and develop emotional regulation techniques that will help you stay grounded in high-pressure situations.<br /><br /><strong style=""><font size="4">Navigating the Unique Challenges of the Entertainment Industry<br /></font></strong><br />Every industry has its own specific set of challenges, and the entertainment and creative industries are no different. Working with a therapist who understands the demands and nuances of these fields can help you navigate obstacles with confidence. Whether you&rsquo;re in front of the camera, on stage, or behind the scenes, therapy provides the insight and support you need to thrive.</font><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/videographer-01_orig.jpg" alt="Videographer" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#515151"><strong style=""><font size="4">Prioritizing Self-Care and Personal Growth as a Creative Professional<br /></font></strong><br />Amid the hustle of your career, it&rsquo;s easy to forget the importance of self-care. Therapy encourages you to take care of your mental health and focus on personal growth. Learn how to manage your energy, balance work-life stress, and create a path that supports both your professional success and well-being.<br /><br /><strong style=""><font size="4">Setting Healthy Boundaries in Creative Careers<br /></font></strong><br />The fast-paced nature of the entertainment and creative industries can blur the lines between personal and professional life. Therapy helps you set healthy boundaries to protect your mental health, nurture relationships, and stay energized. With clear boundaries in place, you can bring your best self to every aspect of your career.</font><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/audition-01_orig.jpg" alt="Theater Notes" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">Achieving Career Goals and Success with Confidence<br /></font></strong><br />Therapy provides a structured space to identify your professional goals and take actionable steps to achieve them. Whether it&rsquo;s securing a new role, building confidence, or creating a sustainable career, therapy equips you with the tools to pursue your dreams with clarity and determination.<br /><br /><strong><font size="4">Conclusion: Reach Your Full Potential with Therapy<br /></font></strong><br />The entertainment, creative, and performing arts industries are dynamic, but they come with unique challenges. Therapy can help you overcome these obstacles, manage stress, and achieve lasting success. With the right support, you can unlock your potential and thrive in your career while maintaining your well-being.<br /><br />If you're ready to take control of your career and mental health, reach out today. Let&rsquo;s work together to help you navigate your career, manage stress, and reach your full potential in the entertainment and creative industries.<br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Managing Life on the Road: How Therapy Can Support You Between Tours and Performances]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/managing-life-on-the-road-how-therapy-can-support-you-between-tours-and-performances]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/managing-life-on-the-road-how-therapy-can-support-you-between-tours-and-performances#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2025 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Individual Therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/managing-life-on-the-road-how-therapy-can-support-you-between-tours-and-performances</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sabrina Merz, LPC         Life on the road can be exhilarating for entertainment, music, and performing arts professionals, but it&rsquo;s also full of challenges. Constant travel, unfamiliar places, and the pressures of performing can leave you feeling drained or disconnected. While therapy can&rsquo;t take place while you're out of state, I offer valuable support during your time at home to help you recharge and manage the stress of touring or traveling for work.Here&rsquo;s how therapy can [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sabrina Merz, LPC</font></em></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/guitarstage-01_orig.jpg" alt="Guitar on Empty Stage" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#515151">Life on the road can be exhilarating for entertainment, music, and performing arts professionals, but it&rsquo;s also full of challenges. Constant travel, unfamiliar places, and the pressures of performing can leave you feeling drained or disconnected. While therapy can&rsquo;t take place while you're out of state, I offer valuable support during your time at home to help you recharge and manage the stress of touring or traveling for work.<br /><br /><strong style="">Here&rsquo;s how therapy can support you when you&rsquo;re off the road:</strong>Life on the road can be exhilarating for entertainment, music, and performing arts professionals, but it&rsquo;s also full of challenges. Constant travel, unfamiliar places, and the pressures of performing can leave you feeling drained or disconnected. While therapy can&rsquo;t take place while you're out of state, I offer valuable support during your time at home to help you recharge and manage the stress of touring or traveling for work.<br /><br /><strong style="">Here&rsquo;s how therapy can support you when you&rsquo;re off the road:</strong></font></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/waitingbackstage-01_orig.jpg" alt="Waiting Backstage" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#515151"><strong><font size="4">Managing Stress and Loneliness Between Tours</font></strong><br /><br />Touring can bring feelings of loneliness and stress, especially when you're away from home for long periods. Therapy helps you manage these emotions, find balance, and reconnect with your personal life during your time at home. By learning coping strategies, you can ease the transition back to life off the road.<br /><br /><font size="4"><strong>Building Emotional Resilience for Future Tours</strong></font><br /><br />Touring requires emotional resilience to handle unpredictable schedules and demanding performances. During your time at home, therapy can help you build resilience for your next tour by providing strategies for emotional regulation and stress management, ensuring you're better equipped for the pressures of life on the road.<br /><br /><font size="4"><strong>Maintaining Mental and Physical Well-Being While You're Home</strong></font><br /><br />The physical and mental demands of touring can negatively impact your well-being. Therapy helps you recover and re-establish a healthy routine when you&rsquo;re home, from stress-reduction techniques to maintaining healthy sleep patterns and reconnecting with loved ones.<br /><br /><font size="4"><strong>Re-establishing Routine and Stability After Touring</strong></font><br /><br />After extended periods of touring, it&rsquo;s common to struggle with re-establishing a stable routine. Therapy offers guidance on balancing work, personal life, and self-care, helping you maintain consistency and stability even when you&rsquo;re not on the road.<br /><br /><font size="4"><strong>Navigating the Pressures of Performance and Public Life</strong></font><br /><br />The pressures of public scrutiny and performance anxiety are unique challenges for entertainment and creative professionals. During your time at home, therapy provides a safe space to process these pressures, gain perspective, and reset your mindset for a healthy approach to public life.<br /><br /><font size="4"><strong>Staying Connected to Your Purpose and Career Goals</strong><br /></font><br />The chaotic pace of touring can make it difficult to stay focused on your long-term goals. Therapy helps you reconnect with your passion and purpose, providing clarity and motivation to stay aligned with your career ambitions, even when you&rsquo;re home.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/cominghome-01_orig.jpg" alt="Coming Home to Family" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#515151"><font size="4"><strong style="">Managing Relationships and Communication</strong><br /></font><br />Extended time on the road can affect your relationships. Therapy helps you navigate communication challenges and set healthy boundaries when you&rsquo;re home, ensuring you stay connected with loved ones and maintain a healthy work-life balance despite your demanding career.<br /><br /><strong><font size="4">Conclusion: Recharge and Prepare for Your Next Chapter</font></strong><br /><br />While life on the road offers excitement, it&rsquo;s important to focus on self-care during your downtime between tours or performances. Therapy supports your mental health, helps you recharge, and prepares you for the next phase of your career.<br /><br />When you reach out to work with me, I&rsquo;ll help you manage stress, build resilience, and create a sustainable, healthy approach to your career. <a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/contact.html">Reach out today</a> to find balance and continue excelling on the road.</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><em><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/team.html">Sabrina Merz, LPC</a>, has 20 years of experience working with adults, specializing in strengths-based, relational, cognitive behavioral, and mindfulness approaches to support clients through life changes, anxiety, self-growth, and healing.</em></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding Teen Mental Health: What Parents Need to Know]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/understanding-teen-mental-health-what-parents-need-to-know]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/understanding-teen-mental-health-what-parents-need-to-know#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:30:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/understanding-teen-mental-health-what-parents-need-to-know</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        b [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS</font></em></div><div><div id="626823955112225206" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/momisthere-01_orig.jpg" alt="Mom Upset Teen" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><font color="#515151">Let&rsquo;s be real&mdash;parenting teens can feel like a rollercoaster ride, and when you start worrying about their mental health, it can be downright overwhelming. But with all the pressures they face these days, it&rsquo;s no surprise that more and more teens are struggling. If you&rsquo;ve noticed changes in your teen and you&rsquo;re feeling unsure about what&rsquo;s going on or how to help, you&rsquo;re not alone. Let&rsquo;s break it down together.</font></span><br><br><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">What&rsquo;s Going on With Teen Mental Health?<br>&#8203;<br>&#8203;</font></span></span><span><font color="#515151">First, some numbers that might make your heart skip a beat: About 1 in 5 teens has a mental health disorder. Anxiety and depression are the big ones, and the rates are going up. In fact, the National Institute of Mental Health says that almost 32% of teens deal with anxiety, and 8% have had a major depressive episode. And here&rsquo;s a tough one to swallow: suicide is the second leading cause of death for kids aged 10-24. That&rsquo;s why it&rsquo;s so important to notice when something&rsquo;s off and step in early.</font></span></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/overhearingfriends-01_orig.jpg" alt="Overhearing Friends" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">What to Watch For<br><br>&#8203;</font></span></span><span><font color="#515151">Sometimes it&rsquo;s hard to tell if your teen&rsquo;s just being, well, a teen or if something deeper is going on. Here are some signs to keep an eye on:</font></span><ol><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Emotional Shifts</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Are they way more irritable or sad than usual? Maybe pulling away from friends or family?</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">You might hear a lot of &ldquo;I&rsquo;m fine&rdquo; when you know they&rsquo;re not.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Behavior Changes</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Grades dropping? Constantly zoning out or forgetting things?</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Watch for changes in eating or sleeping&mdash;too much, too little, or all over the place.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Risky behavior, like sneaking out or experimenting with substances, can be a red flag too.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Physical Complaints</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Frequent headaches, stomachaches, or just not feeling great&mdash;these can sometimes be stress or anxiety showing up physically.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">What They&rsquo;re Saying</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><font color="#515151">If they&rsquo;re talking about feeling hopeless, worthless, or like they want to escape everything, take it seriously. Statements like this aren&rsquo;t just teen drama&mdash;they&rsquo;re calls for help.</font></li></ul></li></ol></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/talkingwithdad-01_orig.jpg" alt="Talking with Dad" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">How You Can Help<br><br></font></span></span><span><font color="#515151">So what can you do when you&rsquo;re worried about your teen? Here are some steps you can take:</font></span><ol><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Talk&mdash;and Really Listen</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Sometimes it&rsquo;s as simple as saying, &ldquo;You don&rsquo;t seem like yourself lately. Want to talk about it?&rdquo;</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Give them space to share without jumping in with advice right away. Just letting them vent can be huge.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">If they&rsquo;re not ready to open up, let them know you&rsquo;re there whenever they&rsquo;re ready.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Know When to Get Help</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">If their mood or behavior has been off for weeks or is getting worse, it might be time to call in a professional. Therapists and counselors are great at helping teens work through tough stuff.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">And if your teen ever mentions wanting to harm themselves, don&rsquo;t wait&mdash;reach out to a crisis line or head to an ER. The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Focus on Healthy Habits</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Encourage things like regular exercise, which is a natural mood booster.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Help them stick to a bedtime routine (yes, even teens need them!) and cut back on screen time before bed.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Show them it&rsquo;s okay to take breaks and practice self-care&mdash;whether that&rsquo;s a walk, journaling, or just relaxing.</font></span></span></li></ul></li></ol><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5"><br>Remember, You&rsquo;re Not Alone<br><br></font></span></span><span><font color="#515151">It&rsquo;s tough to see your kid struggling, and it can make you feel helpless. But even just being there and showing them you care can make a big difference. You don&rsquo;t have to have all the answers&mdash;sometimes just being present is enough.</font></span><br><span><font color="#515151">If you&rsquo;re not sure what steps to take or want some extra support, reach out. Our counseling center is here to help you and your teen navigate this challenging time. You&rsquo;ve got this, and we&rsquo;re here to back you up.</font></span><br></div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/teen.html">Arvada Therapy Solutions Therapy for Teens</a></em></strong></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Helping Teens Overcome Sleep Deprivation: A Guide for Parents]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/helping-teens-overcome-sleep-deprivation]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/helping-teens-overcome-sleep-deprivation#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 03 Feb 2025 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Adolescents]]></category><category><![CDATA[child counseling]]></category><category><![CDATA[child therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><category><![CDATA[problem solving]]></category><category><![CDATA[Teens]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Tweens]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/helping-teens-overcome-sleep-deprivation</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        b [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS</font></em></div><div><div id="242818003594369815" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/tiredstudying-01_orig.jpg" alt="Sleepy Teen Studying" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><font color="#515151">Let&rsquo;s face it&mdash;getting teens to prioritize sleep can feel like an uphill battle. With packed schedules, endless screen time, and their natural tendency to stay up late, sleep often takes a back seat. But the truth is, sleep is vital for their health, mood, and even their success in school. If you&rsquo;re wondering how to help your teen get the rest they need, you&rsquo;re not alone&mdash;and you&rsquo;re in the right place.</font></span></div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><span><span style="font-weight: 700;"><font size="5" style="" color="#515151">Why Are Teens So Sleep-Deprived?</font></span></span></strong><ol><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Biological Sleep Shifts</span><span>: It&rsquo;s not just defiance keeping your teen up late. During puberty, their internal clock naturally shifts, making them feel sleepy later in the evening. Combine that with early school start times, and you&rsquo;ve got a recipe for chronic sleep deprivation.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Busy Schedules</span><span>: Between homework, sports, part-time jobs, and social commitments, teens are juggling more than ever. Unfortunately, sleep often gets sacrificed to fit everything in.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Screen Time and Technology</span><span>: Here&rsquo;s a big one. The blue light from screens suppresses melatonin&mdash;the hormone that helps us feel sleepy. Plus, let&rsquo;s be real, social media and gaming can suck teens into the &ldquo;just one more minute&rdquo; trap until it&rsquo;s way past bedtime.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Stress and Mental Health</span><span>: Whether it&rsquo;s pressure to perform academically, social struggles, or personal challenges, stress can keep teens&rsquo; minds racing long after they&rsquo;ve turned out the lights.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Caffeine Fixes</span>: Teens often rely on caffeine to power through their day, but that afternoon energy drink can interfere with their ability to fall asleep later.</font><br><span></span></li></ol></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/nightphone-01_orig.jpg" alt="Night Phone" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><span style="font-weight: 700;"><font color="#515151" size="5">What Happens When Teens Don&rsquo;t Get Enough Sleep?</font></span></span><ul><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Brain Fog</span><span>: A tired brain doesn&rsquo;t work well. Sleep-deprived teens struggle with focus, memory, and decision-making. It&rsquo;s like trying to run a marathon without fuel&mdash;everything feels harder than it should.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Emotional Rollercoaster</span><span>: Less sleep = more irritability, mood swings, and even increased risk of anxiety and depression. Have you ever noticed how small challenges feel overwhelming when you&rsquo;re tired? Teens feel that too, but they may not have the tools to manage it.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Health Risks</span><span>: Poor sleep weakens the immune system and can contribute to weight gain, high blood pressure, and even diabetes. Plus, teens who don&rsquo;t get enough sleep may turn to sugary snacks or caffeine to stay awake, creating a cycle of poor health choices.</span></font></span><br><span></span></li><li style=""><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Safety Concerns</span>: Drowsy driving is a serious danger for teens, and lack of sleep can impair their reaction times. Imagine driving while feeling half-awake&mdash;it&rsquo;s a recipe for disaster.</font><br><span></span></li></ul></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/yellowsweatshirt-01_orig.jpg" alt="Sleepy Studying" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">How Parents Can Help (Without the Eye Rolls)<br></font></span></span><span><font color="#515151">Supporting your teen&rsquo;s sleep doesn&rsquo;t have to be a constant battle. Here are some practical, parent-approved tips to make it happen:</font></span><ol><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Set a Consistent Sleep Schedule</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Help your teen stick to a regular sleep and wake schedule&mdash;even on weekends. Yes, it&rsquo;s tempting to let them sleep until noon on Saturday, but consistent routines help regulate their internal clock. Allowing them to stay up a little later and wake a little later can be negotiated.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">If their schedule is way off, ease them back on track gradually by adjusting bedtime by 15-30 minutes at a time.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Tackle the Screen Time Struggle Together</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Setting limits on screens isn&rsquo;t easy, especially when they&rsquo;re attached to their phones 24/7. Frame it as a family effort rather than a punishment. Try a tech-free wind-down hour before bed and set up a family charging station outside the bedrooms.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Acknowledge the challenge and involve them in finding solutions. For example, ask, &ldquo;How do you think we can make it easier to put your phone down at night?&rdquo;</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Model Good Sleep Hygiene</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Teens learn a lot from watching us. If they see you scrolling in bed or staying up late, they&rsquo;re likely to follow suit. Show them that you prioritize sleep by creating your own relaxing bedtime routine and sticking to it.</font></span></span></li><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Talk openly about how sleep helps you function better and feel good&mdash;they might start connecting the dots for themselves.</font></span></span></li></ul></li><li><span><font color="#515151"><span style="font-weight:700">Create a Sleep-Friendly Environment</span><span>:</span></font></span><ul><li><span><span><font color="#515151">Make their bedroom a sleep sanctuary. Keep it cool, dark, and quiet. Blackout curtains and white noise machines can work wonders.</font></span></span></li><li><font color="#515151">Encourage calming bedtime rituals like reading, journaling, or deep breathing to signal to their brain that it&rsquo;s time to wind down.</font></li></ul></li></ol></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/phoneasleep-01_orig.jpg" alt="Teen Asleep" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">When to Get Extra Help</font></span></span><br><span><font color="#515151">Sometimes, despite your best efforts, sleep problems persist. If your teen regularly struggles to fall or stay asleep, it may be time to consult a doctor or counselor. Sleep disorders like insomnia or sleep apnea require professional attention, and underlying mental health issues might be contributing to their restless nights.</font></span><br><br><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#515151" size="5">Final Thoughts</font></span></span><br><span><font color="#515151">We know it&rsquo;s not easy, but helping your teen establish healthy sleep habits is worth the effort. With patience, consistency, and a little creativity, you can set them up for better sleep and better days. Plus, you&rsquo;ll likely get a few more zzz&rsquo;s yourself&mdash;win-win!<br>&#8203;</font></span><br><span><font color="#515151">If you&rsquo;re looking for more tips or support for your teen&rsquo;s mental health and well-being, we&rsquo;re here to help. Reach out to learn more about our counseling services for teens.</font></span><br></div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/teen.html">Arvada Therapy Solutions Therapy for Teens</a></em></strong></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Boss Treats Me Unfairly]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/my-boss-treats-me-unfairly]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/my-boss-treats-me-unfairly#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2025 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Business]]></category><category><![CDATA[problem solving]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Workplace]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/my-boss-treats-me-unfairly</guid><description><![CDATA[Alec Rozmiarek, BA, Intern   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        butt [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/team.html"><font size="2">Alec Rozmiarek, BA, Intern</font></a></em></div><div><div id="985706935956776046" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/worriedatwork-01_orig.jpg" alt="Worried at Work" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">How much of your energy each day do you spend on work?<br>&nbsp;<br>Not just the work you&rsquo;re paid to do, but the energy you spend off the clock.<br>&nbsp;<br>The energy spent laying awake at night dreading the work day ahead.&nbsp;The energy spent wishing you were driving to literally anywhere else but work.&nbsp;The time spent mustering up the courage to talk to your boss, worrying how they&rsquo;ll punish you for speaking.<br>&nbsp;<br>The energy spent thinking:<br>&#8203;<br>&ldquo;How will my boss set me up for failure today?&rdquo;<br>&ldquo;What will I do &lsquo;wrong&rsquo; today?&rdquo;<br>&ldquo;Will my boss just make something up to be mad about today?&rdquo;<br>&ldquo;Why am I being treated this way?&rdquo;<br>&nbsp;<br>It may surprise you how much of your energy, on and off the clock, can be drained by having a boss who mistreats you, belittles you, refuses to engage with you constructively, or perhaps even discriminates against you. And it can feel like there&rsquo;s no way it will stop&mdash;your boss is the one you are supposed to turn to if you have a problem, right?</div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:15px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/bossyelling-01_orig.jpg" alt="Boss Yelling" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">But what if your boss IS the problem? Who can you turn to when your problems at work are sanctioned by the person who is supposed to help? When something is wrong at work and the boss either won&rsquo;t listen or is actively responsible for what is wrong, sometimes we need to go higher up with our concerns. That can mean the boss of the boss. Or if they won&rsquo;t listen to you, that might mean the boss of the boss of the boss. Or if THEY won&rsquo;t listen to you, it might mean someone even higher up, or perhaps looking outside of the chain of command at work.<br>&nbsp;<br>We deserve to work (at the ABSOLUTE minimum) with the confidence that we will be physically safe, fairly treated, and treated with dignity and respect. But sometimes, to advocate for our most fundamental rights, we need to light a fire under someone&rsquo;s ass. But whose?<br>&nbsp;<br>Does this concern need to be escalated to&hellip;<br><br><strong>The Boss?</strong>&nbsp;Will the boss in question be receptive to you letting them know what&rsquo;s going on? Or do you fear they will retaliate?<br><br><strong>A Trusted Authority Figure?</strong>&nbsp;Is there a safe higher up who you trust, like an assistant manager, another department head, etc.? Will they do something about the issue, or will they side with the boss (or even report what you said to the boss)?<br></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:15px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/reporttohr-01_orig.jpg" alt="Report to HR" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong>HR?</strong> Do you trust your employee support staff or HR department to help? Will they provide you with assistance, or will they never email you back? HR is (ideally) a department meant to protect employees, but at the end of the day its true purpose is to protect the company.<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>Someone Even Higher Up?&nbsp;</strong>Is it feasible to go even higher? Will you be listened to, or will your concerns be sent into the void and never seen again?<br>&nbsp;<br>My hope is that any or all of these options hear you out, take accountability, and indicate that they are going to make changes.<br>&nbsp;<br>But what if absolutely nobody in your organization will listen to you? What if they promise change, but don&rsquo;t follow through? What if your employer is so huge that it sees you as just a face in the crowd? What if the issue you&rsquo;re seeing is not just coming from one person, but from the entire system?<br>&nbsp;<br>If you can&rsquo;t light that fire by yourself, it may help to call people who do it for a living, such as&hellip;<br>&nbsp;<br><strong>A Union Leader?&nbsp;</strong>Workers&rsquo; unions are put in place to advocate for and protect employees. They also provide an avenue for communication with the company itself to inspire direct changes.</div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:15px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/unionworkers-01_orig.jpg" alt="Union Workers" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">The EEOC</font></strong><br><br>Do you think your treatment may be discriminatory in nature? Do you seem to be singled out because of your race, sex, disability status, age, or any other aspects of you as a human being? <strong><a href="https://www.eeoc.gov/overview">The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission</a></strong> (or EEOC) exists to enforce federal laws that prevent unlawful discrimination. It also has a <strong><a href="https://www.eeoc.gov/prohibited-employment-policiespractices">handy list of prohibited practices</a></strong> that may provoke legal action. But even if you are not 100% certain whether your situation is considered discrimination, <strong><a href="https://www.eeoc.gov/how-file-charge-employment-discrimination">submitting an inquiry online</a></strong> will connect you with a representative who will listen to you and tell you what can be done (and they will not alert your employer about your inquiry).<br>&nbsp;<br><strong><font size="4">OSHA</font></strong><br><br>Do you feel physically unsafe at work? Are required safety measures not being taken? Do you spend the work day on your toes waiting for an accident to happen? The <strong><a href="https://www.osha.gov/aboutosha" target="_blank">Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA)</a></strong> exists to promote workplace safety and prevent retaliation. You can <strong><a href="https://www.osha.gov/workers/file-complaint">confidentially file a complaint</a></strong> or request a consultation to see how OSHA may be able to advocate for the safety of your workplace and the people in it.<br>&nbsp;<br>Every person deserves to be safe at work, to be treated with dignity and respect, and to have their voice heard, both in and out of work. And a huge component of using your voice is knowing your rights and knowing the power you wield to advocate not only for yourself, but for those you care about.</div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/team.html">Learn more about Alex Rozmiarek, BA, Intern</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/individual.html">Arvada Therapy Solutions Individual Therapy for Adults</a></em></strong></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The ADHD Brain: Your Child’s Superpower in Disguise]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/the-adhd-brain]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/the-adhd-brain#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jan 2025 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[ADD/ADHD]]></category><category><![CDATA[Behavior]]></category><category><![CDATA[child counseling]]></category><category><![CDATA[child therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><category><![CDATA[play therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[problem solving]]></category><category><![CDATA[Teens]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/the-adhd-brain</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        b [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS</font></em></div><div><div id="628950535845226602" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/adhdbrain-01_orig.jpg" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="ADHD Kid Brain" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Parenting a child with ADHD is a bit like trying to teach a butterfly to follow a straight path. They&rsquo;re colorful, curious, and full of energy, but boy, do they get distracted! If you&rsquo;ve ever wondered what&rsquo;s really going on inside your child&rsquo;s brain and why they act the way they do, you&rsquo;re not alone. Let&rsquo;s take a closer look at how the ADHD brain works and how understanding it can help you parent with more patience, compassion, and maybe even a little humor.<br><br><strong><font size="4">What</font>&rsquo;<font size="4">s Happening inside the ADHD Brain?<br></font></strong><br>Imagine you&rsquo;re driving a car with an overactive accelerator and unreliable brakes. That&rsquo;s the ADHD brain. It&rsquo;s not that your child isn&rsquo;t trying; it&rsquo;s that their brain is wired differently. ADHD impacts the areas responsible for attention, impulse control, and emotional regulation. Think of it as having a Ferrari engine with bicycle brakes.<br>&#8203;<br>Kids with ADHD are often amazing problem-solvers, creative thinkers, and full of enthusiasm&mdash;when they&rsquo;re engaged. The trick is learning how to harness these strengths while addressing the challenges.</div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">Reframing Challenges as Opportunities</font></strong><br><br>Yes, ADHD can make life feel chaotic (I have a child with ADHD and have it myself), but reframing the narrative can help. For example:<ul><li><strong>Impulsivity?</strong> Sure, it&rsquo;s challenging, but it also means your child is bold and unafraid to take risks&mdash;qualities that lead to innovation.</li><li><strong>Forgetfulness?</strong> Okay, it&rsquo;s frustrating when they lose their homework, but it&rsquo;s also an opportunity to teach them systems and strategies that they can use throughout life.</li><li><strong>High energy?</strong> Channel it into something positive, like sports, creative projects, or hands-on activities.</li></ul></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/playingsoccer-01_orig.jpg" alt="Playing Soccer with Dad" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">Practical Tips for Parents</font></strong><br><br>Here&rsquo;s how you can support your child&rsquo;s unique brain:<ol><li><strong>Structure is your best friend.</strong> Create predictable routines that help your child know what&rsquo;s coming next. ADHD brains thrive on consistency.</li><li><strong>Break tasks into smaller steps.</strong> Large assignments or chores can feel overwhelming. Think bite-sized pieces instead of the whole buffet.</li><li><strong>Use positive reinforcement.</strong> Celebrate the small wins. ADHD kids often hear what they&rsquo;re doing wrong; show them what they&rsquo;re doing right.</li><li><strong>Help them externalize reminders.</strong> Visual cues like sticky notes, charts, or timers can work wonders.</li></ol><br><strong><font size="4">Embracing the Journey</font></strong><br><br>Parenting a child with ADHD isn&rsquo;t about fixing them&mdash;it&rsquo;s about helping them thrive. Your child&rsquo;s brain isn&rsquo;t broken; it&rsquo;s beautifully different. When you embrace their quirks and challenges, you&rsquo;ll find that their so-called weaknesses are often their greatest strengths in disguise.<br></div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/why-your-adhd-child-needs-structure" target="_blank">Why Your ADHD Child Needs Structure (And How to Make it Stick)</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/keep-your-cool-parenting-adhd" target="_blank">Parenting Your ADHD Child without Losing Your Cool</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/group-therapy.html" target="_blank">Parenting Workshops at Arvada Therapy Solutions</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/parenting-support.html" target="_blank">Parenting Support at Arvada Therapy Solutions</a></em></strong></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Your ADHD Child Needs Structure (and How to Make it Stick)]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/why-your-adhd-child-needs-structure]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/why-your-adhd-child-needs-structure#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jan 2025 08:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[ADD/ADHD]]></category><category><![CDATA[Adolescents]]></category><category><![CDATA[Behavior]]></category><category><![CDATA[child counseling]]></category><category><![CDATA[child therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><category><![CDATA[play therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Teens]]></category><category><![CDATA[Tweens]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/why-your-adhd-child-needs-structure</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        b [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS</font></em></div><div><div id="376334183763739586" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/weeklycalendar-01_orig.jpg" alt="WeeklyCalendar" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">If you&rsquo;ve got an ADHD kiddo at home, you&rsquo;ve probably heard advice like, &ldquo;They need structure.&rdquo; But what does that actually mean? And how do you create structure when your child seems allergic to schedules? Don&rsquo;t worry&mdash;you&rsquo;re not alone, and we&rsquo;ve got some tips to help.<br><br><strong><font size="4">Why ADHD Kids Thrive on Structure</font></strong><br><br>Think of structure like bumpers on a bowling lane. It doesn&rsquo;t guarantee a strike, but it keeps the ball out of the gutter. For ADHD kids, routines and clear expectations provide a sense of safety and predictability in what often feels like a chaotic world.<br><br>When there&rsquo;s structure, your child doesn&rsquo;t have to guess what&rsquo;s coming next. This reduces anxiety and helps their brain conserve energy for other tasks, like actually doing the thing instead of arguing about it.</div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/kiddoschedule-01_orig.jpg" alt="Boys Weekly Calendar" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">&#8203;How to Build Structure that Works</font></strong><br><br><ol><li><strong>Start with small routines.</strong> Don&rsquo;t overhaul your entire day all at once. Pick one routine, like bedtime, and stick with it.</li><li><strong>Use visuals and reminders.</strong> ADHD brains often respond better to what they can see than to what they hear. Create charts, use apps, or set up a big whiteboard in your kitchen.</li><li><strong>Be flexible (but not too flexible).</strong> Structure doesn&rsquo;t mean rigidity. Build in some wiggle room so your child doesn&rsquo;t feel boxed in. And allow for your child to have more autonomy as they start to figure things out and as they grow older.</li><li><strong>Consistency is key.</strong> The more predictable the routine, the more effective it becomes. Even if they resist at first, stick with it.</li></ol><br><strong><font size="4">What if Structure is Hard for You?</font></strong><br><br>Let&rsquo;s be real&mdash;creating structure isn&rsquo;t always easy, especially if you&rsquo;re a parent who also struggles with executive functioning challenges or who finds routines overwhelming. If this sounds familiar, here are some ideas to help:<br><br><ul><li><strong>Start small for yourself too.</strong> Pick one or two areas where you can create a simple routine, like meal prep or morning wake-ups. Build from there.</li><li><strong>Use the same tools you&rsquo;d give your child.</strong> Visual schedules, timers, and checklists aren&rsquo;t just for kids&mdash;they can work wonders for adults too.</li><li><strong>Outsource where you can.</strong> If organizing feels impossible, see if a partner, friend, or even a professional can help you set up systems that work for your family.</li><li><strong>Practice self-compassion.</strong> Parenting is tough, and parenting with ADHD or executive functioning challenges is even tougher. It&rsquo;s okay if your version of structure looks different&mdash;it&rsquo;s about progress, not perfection.</li></ul></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/brushingteethwithdad-01_orig.jpg" alt="Brushing Teeth with Dad" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">Make it Fun</font></strong><br><br>Structure doesn&rsquo;t have to feel like a chore. Add some fun elements, like silly songs for transitions or a rewards chart for completed tasks. If your child is motivated by humor or games, use that to your advantage.<br><br><strong><font size="4">Progress, Not Perfection</font></strong><br><br>Creating structure isn&rsquo;t about being the perfect parent; it&rsquo;s about finding what works for your family. Start small, celebrate the wins, and remember: you&rsquo;ve got this!<br><br>If structure still feels like a struggle, or if you feel like you could use some extra support, we&rsquo;re here to help. At Arvada Therapy Solutions, we work with parents just like you to find strategies that work for your unique family dynamic. Reach out to learn more about our parenting support services.</div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/the-adhd-brain" target="_blank">The ADHD Brain: Your Child's Superpower in Disguise</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/keep-your-cool-parenting-adhd" target="_blank">Parenting Your ADHD Child without Losing Your Cool</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/group-therapy.html" target="_blank">Parenting Workshops at Arvada Therapy Solutions</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/parenting-support.html" target="_blank">Parenting Support at Arvada Therapy Solutions<br></a><a href="https://www.rent.com/blog/how-to-keep-a-house-clean-with-kids/" target="_blank">How to Keep a House Clean with Kids by Cam Hayes of Rent Blog.</a></em></strong> <em>Sybil discusses adapting cleaning tasks to the unique needs of children with ADHD.&nbsp;<br></em><strong></strong><br><br><br><br><strong></strong><br></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parenting Your ADHD Child Without Losing Your Cool]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/keep-your-cool-parenting-adhd]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/keep-your-cool-parenting-adhd#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 28 Dec 2024 20:06:55 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[ADD/ADHD]]></category><category><![CDATA[Adolescents]]></category><category><![CDATA[Behavior]]></category><category><![CDATA[child counseling]]></category><category><![CDATA[child therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><category><![CDATA[play therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Teens]]></category><category><![CDATA[Tweens]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/keep-your-cool-parenting-adhd</guid><description><![CDATA[By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        b [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font size="2">By Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS</font></em></div><div><div id="449810422128292495" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/wornoutparents-01_orig.jpg" alt="Worn Out Parents" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Parenting any child can be challenging, but when you add ADHD to the mix, it can feel like you&rsquo;re juggling flaming swords. The good news? With the right strategies (and maybe a little extra caffeine), you can navigate these challenges without losing your cool.<br><br><font size="4"><strong>Why ADHD Can Be Frustrating</strong><br></font><br>Kids with ADHD aren&rsquo;t trying to push your buttons (well, not most of the time). Their brain struggles with executive functions like planning, organizing, and impulse control. This means tasks like putting on shoes or finishing homework can turn into an Olympic event.</div><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/upsetkiddo-01_orig.jpg" alt="Upset Kiddo" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">Parenting from a Place of Regulation</font></strong><br><br>When you stay regulated as a parent, you create a calming presence for your child to anchor to. This is especially important for kids with ADHD, whose heightened emotions and impulsivity can often escalate situations quickly. Coregulation&mdash;where your calm helps soothe their chaos&mdash;teaches them emotional regulation over time. Pair that with attunement, where you really tune in to what your child is feeling, and you build trust and safety. This isn&rsquo;t just about putting out fires in the moment; it&rsquo;s about laying the groundwork for their long-term ability to handle big emotions and challenging situations.<br><br><strong><font size="4">Tips for Staying Calm</font></strong><br><br><ol><li><strong>Don&rsquo;t take it personally.</strong> ADHD is about how your child&rsquo;s brain works, not about you. When they forget their lunch for the third time this week, remind yourself it&rsquo;s not intentional.</li><li><strong>Focus on connection.</strong> Build a strong relationship so your child knows you&rsquo;re their teammate, not their adversary. This creates a foundation for cooperation.</li><li><strong>Have a plan for meltdowns.</strong> Both theirs and yours. Deep breaths, a short walk, or even stepping into another room can help you reset.</li><li><strong>Celebrate the good moments.</strong> Did they remember their backpack today? High five! Did they sit through a family dinner without interrupting? Break out the confetti.</li></ol><br><strong><font size="4">Humor is Your Secret Weapon</font></strong><br><br>When things get tough, find the funny. Did they put their shoes in the fridge? Laugh it off. Humor can diffuse tension and help everyone reset.</div><div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium" style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/videogameswithmom-01_orig.jpg" alt="Video Games with Mom" style="width:auto;max-width:100%"></a><div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><font size="4">You&rsquo;re Doing Better than You Think</font></strong><br><br>Parenting an ADHD child is a marathon, not a sprint. You&rsquo;re going to have rough days, but you&rsquo;ll also have amazing ones. Keep learning, keep trying, and remember: your child doesn&rsquo;t need a perfect parent; they just need you.<br><br>If you are still pulling your hair out as you parent your kiddos&mdash;knowing that staying regulated will help, but struggling to do it&mdash;we can help. We offer <strong><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/group-therapy.html" target="_blank">parent support sessions</a></strong> at Arvada Therapy Solutions that doesn&rsquo;t solely focus on the logistical tools like structure and scaffolding, but also works on helping you identify your triggers, manage them, and stay regulated and connected as you parent.</div><div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div><hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong><em>You May Like:<br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/the-adhd-brain" target="_blank">The ADHD Brain: Your Child's Superpower in Disguise</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/why-your-adhd-child-needs-structure" target="_blank">Why Your ADHD Child Needs Structure (And How to Make it Stick)</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/group-therapy.html" target="_blank">Parenting Workshops at Arvada Therapy Solutions</a><br><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/parenting-support.html" target="_blank">Parenting Support at Arvada Therapy Solutions</a><br><a href="https://www.rent.com/blog/how-to-keep-a-house-clean-with-kids/" target="_blank">How to Keep a House Clean with Kids by Cam Hayes of Rent Blog.</a>&nbsp;</em></strong><em>Sybil discusses adapting cleaning tasks to the unique needs of children with ADHD.&nbsp;</em>&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding a Domestic Abuse Therapist]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/finding-a-domestic-abuse-therapist]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/finding-a-domestic-abuse-therapist#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 07 Dec 2024 16:33:28 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category><category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/finding-a-domestic-abuse-therapist</guid><description><![CDATA[   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        button.setAttribute('data-desc [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div id="664825691215826171" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/published/dvtherapist-02.jpg?1733589483" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">Finding a therapist after experiencing domestic abuse can be daunting, but the right support is crucial for healing. In this guide from <a href="https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-a-domestic-abuse-therapist" target="_blank">DomesticShelters.org</a>, Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS, offers practical tips to help survivors identify therapists who truly understand the complexities of domestic violence and narcissistic abuse. It covers questions to ask, such as evaluating a therapist&rsquo;s experience, their therapeutic approaches, and whether they fit your emotional and financial needs. It also highlights resources to locate specialized professionals. With thoughtful advice, this article empowers survivors to take a confident step toward recovery.<br><br>Read the full article&nbsp;<a href="https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-a-domestic-abuse-therapist" target="_blank">here</a>&nbsp;or click the button below.</div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div style="text-align:left;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div><a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/how-to-find-a-domestic-abuse-therapist" target="_blank"><span class="wsite-button-inner">How to Choose a Domestic Abuse Therapist</span></a><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Contacting Your Innate Brilliance Through Somatic Therapy]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/somatic-therapy]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/somatic-therapy#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sat, 03 Feb 2024 19:09:12 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Behavior]]></category><category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category><category><![CDATA[Self]]></category><category><![CDATA[Somatic Therapy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Therapy]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/blog/somatic-therapy</guid><description><![CDATA[By Keri Signoracci   document.addEventListener('DOMContentLoaded', function() {    var pageTitle = document.title;  // Get the page title    var pageUrl = window.location.href;  // Get the page URL    // Find all Pinterest "Pin It" buttons on the page    var pinterestButtons = document.querySelectorAll('a[data-pin-do="buttonPin"]');    // For each button, set the 'data-description' to the page title and 'data-url' to the page URL    pinterestButtons.forEach(function(button) {        button.setAt [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><a href="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/team.html" target="_blank"><font size="2">By Keri Signoracci</font></a></em></div><div><div id="482568375881599584" align="left" style="width: 100%; overflow-y: hidden;" class="wcustomhtml"><!-- Pinterest Save Button Script (to enable hover functionality) --> <!-- Custom JavaScript to Dynamically Set Page Title and URL for Pinterest Pins --></div></div><span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:324px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/published/breathe-01.jpg?1706987925" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;">If you can read this article, you are a human possessing a body. Most perceive our bodies as limbs, organs, and a solid physical structure. Our physical health is asserted as being located in our bodies and determines whether we are sick or well or in pain. Additionally, the size and shape of our bodies dictate narratives, arousing labels, judgments, and behaviors.<br><br>We often hear of trauma being "stuck in our bodies" and think that there is an extreme, cathartic process that takes place when undergoing body-centered therapy, i.e., Somatic Therapy.&nbsp;You may have heard of Somatic Experiencing and Hakomi, the more mainstream varieties. Many seek out these therapies to "remove or unblock trauma" as if it is an unwanted, vilified parasite, and we are inadequate until we do so. Similarly, we often judge ourselves or can be labeled by others as being stuck, tense, dissociative, or "not in our bodies." Many Somatic and other therapists suggest that the client "must get in their body" to be doing effective therapy. Outside influences often permeate, shrouding these concepts in shame and all-or-nothing dichotomies.<br></div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"><div><!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div><span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:324px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.arvadatherapysolutions.com/uploads/8/3/2/8/83280480/published/meditate-01.jpg?1706988238" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image"></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span><div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;"><span>&#8203;Ironically, in my practice, I often invite clients to notice what it is like to validate and explore NOT wanting to be in their bodies. Guess what? Regardless of who you are, what you have been through, and whether you care to go within your body, your body is an absolute powerhouse of genius and resource. Many of us have had experiences causing us to vacate our body's premises so we don't have to feel or remember painful or traumatic occurrences. Do you realize how smart you were/are for adopting such strategies when faced with zero alternatives, supportive relationships, or coping abilities?</span><br><br>To truly understand and experience the therapeutic benefits of Somatic Therapy, we must uphold a compassionate view toward ourselves. Anything we seek as a healing modality is only an ally when we approach ourselves with an attitude of "All that we are and have endured vs. what we lack and must become to be enough." For example, as you are reading this, there is probably some part of your body that can offer a sense of calm. It may be the feeling of your fingertip touching your thumb. It could be the feeling of the center of your foot making contact with the floor. Consequently, you may notice that your body is tense and constricted, and you are not interested in exploring it any further. This is equally fantastic! Your inner wisdom says, "No thanks, I am good." Here is the voice of your body's boundaries. How amazing you are for asserting yourself!<br><br>&#8203;Sometimes, pain and tension are the body's way of protecting you from something and, since you are not inseparable from your body, you are protecting yourself, which means you are a total badass who knows what's up! This voice of inner intelligence prevails, exists, and is untouchable despite all your suffering! Making contact with this IS therapy and is necessary before following the methodology or instructions someone delivers. We must learn to trust our inner voice first! Let's see what it says about how we wish to approach our bodies. Conveniently, this is how we begin the practice of eradicating self-doubt. Of course, the format and methodologies of many somatic therapies are hugely valuable, but not at the expense of your truth, intuition, needs, and intricate trajectory, which only you are aware of.<br><br>So, are you curious about Somatic Therapy? Feel free to start your own self-guided practice! Find a comfortable, peaceful place for your body to rest. Tune inward. First, notice whether you care to open or close your eyes. Again, this is your authentic, intelligence speaking. Follow it. Ask it to lead you where it wants to go, to feel safe, held, and, most importantly, loved by you. Notice if you WANT to take deep breaths or not. There is no need to choose one or the other; follow your lead. Notice if any part of your body says "Hell no" or "Hell Yes." Both are perfect! Witness where you are tense, in pain, sad, angry, numb, joyous, hungry, or anything else. Notice if any of these emotions or parts of your body call for your attention. Notice if they want no recognition. Always respect your need to back off or not go somewhere that does not feel safe. You have been through enough in your life. It is your turn to call the shots! Here, you are practicing Somatic Therapy rooted in your impenetrable wisdom, using your inner voice as your guide.<br><br>&#8203;Designing your newly constructed, somatically aware foundation offers you an invaluable resource bathed in compassion and cleansed of shame to traverse the topography of life using the compass of your virtuosity.</div><hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;">]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>